http://www.hopeisemo.com/taxonomy/term/300/0 en-US http://www.hopeisemo.com/node/953 <p>My father, little brother, and my dad's girlfriend and her kid all went up to this one guy's wedding in Omaha today. My dad was pissed at me becuase I refused to go, but the fact of the matter is, I hate weddings. It's just so sad to see two people having the happiest moment of thier lives when you know that most of thier happiness will run out soon enough and the marrige will take a downhill spiral ending in divorce, for that happens all to often for so many people. SO many broken families through abuse and divorce created first back when the people in that marrige said "I do." Happiness is only temporary, and I guess what I hate most about weddings is that the people all put the common knowledge of the horrors of relationships behind themselves and celebrate "the beginning of thier journey together" which will most likely lead to sadness and sufferings. I don't know how many marrages actually are good and last, but in my "good Christian family" (which i am the black sheep of by the way because of the way I am and that I do not believe in god for which they all disapprove) there are only two marrages that I can think of that have been without abuse and divorce; one uncle on my mother's side and one aunt on my father's side, and there are at least 500 people that I know of in my family. All the rest of the marrages are filled with abuse and many are divorced and remarried and have many children from other marrages or others have many bastard children from countless relationships with people that they can't remember. Human relationships are confusing to me and i dont understand how they function together, so I try to observe people in hopes that I will get it, but I don't and so I really hate watching marrages. Dad and his girlfriend dont understand that and they won't listen to what I have to say becuase dad says that many things that I have an opinion about or say upsets his girlfriend, so I am unheard and possibly in trouble. Well, it sucks.</p> http://www.hopeisemo.com/node/953#comment confused relationships weddings Sat, 1 Jul 2006 17:33:14 -0500 zombiepeople 953 at http://www.hopeisemo.com